Reading Oddfellows

READING Oddfellows, is inviting residents to a series of special taster events as part of its annual “Friendship Month” celebrations in September.

The not-for-profit group, made up of around 1,000 members, mostly older adults, is appealing for people to push past any uncertainty or self-doubt, and to say “yes” to giving their friendly group a try.

Trying new activities inevitably puts us in situations where we might feel uncomfortable or a little out of place but that’s all part of the experience.

People who try us always leave saying they wish they hadn’t worried so much and they were pleased they came along.

It’s easy to say “no” to anything that challenges our regular habits. But these tasters have been specifically designed to put you at ease. Saying “yes” to giving something new a try, especially a shared experience, has so many rewards, especially for wellbeing.

Good company boosts your mood, builds your social confidence, and keeps your brain and body active.

Plus, what often gets overlooked is that when you create a new circle of friends, you’re also creating a supportive network for when you might need a helping hand.

Reading Oddfellows has been celebrating Friendship Month since 2010, aiming to bring local people together through special taster events and to encourage the formation of new, supportive friendships.

On Tuesday this week, the group held a free Friendship Month Concert hosted by its singing group at the Oddfellows Hall in Oxford Road, Reading.

Next Wednesday, the group will host a free “Get to Know us Lunch” from 12.30pm, also at the Oddfellows Hall, booking is essential for this event.

Reading Oddfellows also holds events in Tilehurst, Pangbourne, Henley, Maidenhead and Thatcham and the Oddfellows nationally run about 60 online social events through Zoom each month, which are free and open to the general public.

Gill, from Reading, has been a member of Reading Oddfellows for two years. She said: “You have your routine, and that’s fine, but it’s important to break out of it from time to time — to try a new café, walk or to have a lovely conversation with someone outside of your family or regular friendships.

“You find out so many interesting things, and have stories to share afterwards. It lifts your spirits. You should never stop learning, or challenging yourself.

“If you’re nervous, don’t be. We’ve all been there and understand how nerve-wracking it can feel. Give the event host a call beforehand and then that’s one new friend you’ve made already.”

Reading Oddfellows is one of 96 branches of the Oddfellows, which is one of the oldest and largest friendly societies in the UK.

As well as its events, members can access a variety of benefits including care and welfare support and a travel club.

For more information and to register an interest in attending one of the taster events, email readingodd
fellows@oddfellows.co.uk, call 0118 957 3354 or request a local info pack at www.
friendshipmonth.com

Debbie Jex