Pamela Marks, January 24, 1931 to June 28, 2025 Sandra O’Halloran, July 17, 1949 to August 28, 2025

THIS summer, Henley lost two much loved residents — mother and daughter, Pamela Marks and Sandra O’Halloran who, together, made Ancastle Green their home for more than 40 years.

Sandra, known to many through her shop “Daisy’s” on Duke Street, was at the heart of Henley’s community life in the Nineties.

She grew up in the world of horse racing before moving to Henley with her two small children.

Horse-mad throughout her life, she never missed a Henley Show, now known as the Henley Farm and Country Show.

A natural organiser, she was known for her flair in setting up a sumptuous picnic just about anywhere, and for her lively presence on the 7.09am from Henley to Paddington — working for Arcadis in Marlow and then Kings Cross for more than 20 years.

For nearly two decades she also served as chairman of the Ancastle Green Residents’ Society, representing her neighbours with dedication.

Pamela, or “Grannie” to everyone, not just her family, was equally well known. A familiar sight walking by the river with her beloved sausage dog, she would take the bus to Hambleden and walk all the way back until nearly the age of 90.

She shared her wisdom, humour and no-nonsense outlook with all who knew her, and was the steady hand behind countless children in Henley, having worked as a childminder for many years.

She will also be fondly remembered for her Sunday lunches, unbeatable apple pie, and as a shameless flirt with the handsome rowers and coaches along the Thames Path.

Both strong, witty women, they leave behind a lasting legacy of love and laughter. Pamela was mother to Sandra, Kelly and Geoffrey, and grandmother to Tom and Daisy.

Sandra was mother to Tom and Daisy, and adored grandmother to Joey, who brought immeasurable joy to both women’s lives.

True to their spirited natures, neither wished for a funeral. Instead, family and friends are invited to honour them in the way they would have loved best — by raising a glass of fizz.

Daisy Smith